The Neighbor’s Son
Foreplay is an art, something you master with time. The more experience one has the better for them. Some guys are born with these skills while others just learn the art later in their lives after disappointing a string of women. Unfortunately, some will never be good at it.
Most women enjoy fore play more than the actual sex, a fact that most men seem not to understand, or simply ignore. When you are pleasuring a girl please give her your all, do to her things she’d never even dreamt of and trust me this girl will sing your praises to her grave. Even if you dog her she will never leave you. You will be her marking scheme, from which she compares other guys who come after you, and even before you. A satisfied woman will never even gold dig you, because money will be secondary to what comes to her mind when she thinks about you. Some People think women love money but clearly those people know nothing: women resort to exhorting money from you after they realize that’s the best they can get from you, because in other sectors you are as hopeless as a drowning lizard.
Here are a few tips on the do’s and don’ts when it comes to foreplay.
1. Rough play
Unless she prefers rough sex, or is into some kind of weird fetish, please do not man handle your gal. Boobs are a delicate part of the body which are occasionally painful due to some hormonal imbalance that might be taking place at that particular moment. One single mistake and she’ll go off the radar and quickly get in a foul mood; which you will definitely not want before love making. Grabbing boobs in a careless and painful manner and handling them like stolen cargo will deduct your marks.
Kissing a gal like you are trying to extract juice from lemons is, to say the least, unacceptable. Most women do not like rough kissing and it becomes even worse when all the guy is doing is splash saliva all over your chin and cheeks. Kindly read the mood that gal is in before kissing her in that weird frenzy that will totally do nothing for her. Instead she might end up disgusted and you might end up with slap marks. The polite ones will push you away and try not to hurt your feelings. Always remember that unlike men, who can harden up at everything and anything including the slightest sound of a squealing mouse, a single misstep can totally put off a gal and brining her back to the mood will be next to impossibility. Also keep in mind that there is a very thin line between an urgent kiss and a rough painful kiss.
2. Dirty talk.
Let not social media lie to you. Not all women like being called bitches. Know what type of a woman you are dealing with. Dirty names tickle some but offend others. Do not use names that will make U start apologizing in the middle of your thing hence leading to you calling it a day; if you know what I mean.
3. Appreciate/ compliment/ flatter your woman.
Whether they agree or not, most women put on confidence to cover their insecurities. Some really are confident, but most have permanent scars in their hearts that they try to hide. Even miss world has insecurities with her body, as unbelieving as it sounds. Show me one woman who doesn’t have issues with her body and I’ll show you a clean politician. I mean, even Beyonce has had various reconstructive surgery!!
One appreciative word could really change the mood. Of course the timeless one is “you are beautiful”. Try to put on a genuine look on your face even if the lady looks like a boxer, muscles and all. She might be looking like the latest version of the early man (the nut cracker to be precise) but always remember that women love compliments even if they are lies and they know they are being lied to. As long as you can say it with a straight face.
Look for the positives; tell her she has a lovely skin, tell her she has the best p. that you would like to go into her and never come out. Stare into her eyes and tell her she has the best eyes you have ever seen, eyes you would want your kids to have. Caress her breasts and squeeze the nipples lightly….LIGHTLY……saying that God must have been from lunch and resting while he created her. You know the works.
Nothing sucks like a man who doesn’t know what to do. Be in charge and take control.
Do not wait to be told what to do, unless she orders you to STOP. In which case you might have been hurting her or you came across as flat. Spank her, grab her ass, turn her and spoon her, anything bumpy and exciting that she definitely wasn’t expecting and which increased her heartbeat. In short, BE A MAN.
A confident man, a man who shows a woman that he desires her, that he actually DESIRES her, is the best turn on to any woman. Don’t ask for love once, then ukinyimwa you end up saying “basi kama hutaKI kaa nayo” utterances like kwani yako ina ghorofa, or, kwani ni sabuni inaasha, should be avoided at all costs.
Remember the clitoris is a very sensitive organ, extremely so. It also a wonderful organ whose stimulation results in production of erotic sensations or sexual excitement. If you do this correctly, an orgasm is on the way. Do not go there like you are sucking nectar form a flower as this can lead to pain. This is because the clit is sometimes over sensitive. How you go about your whole business is also vital, don’t start with the force of a pressure pump, rather, start with a slow but sure rhythm, as you build up.
Finally, always treat your woman with the respect she deserves.
Have a pleasant evening, and let’s meet tomorrow at the driftwood sevens.
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